I'd rather be one person's shot of whisky than everyone's cup of tea


Hi guys I just wanted to say a big thankyouuu all so much for your comments lately, they always make me so happy even when you are just saying my shorts are cool ;) There are times where I feel inadequate as a blogger compared to others -- but then I soon snap out of it because there is only one me and so I've already got one thing that no other bloggers have, and we should all celebrate that! All celebrate that we are all individuals that is, not all celebrate me... all though, feel free to if you want to ;)



Whether you have a blog or not, everywhere you go there will always be someone who seems more popular than you and you can often feel deflated by your efforts or feel that these people have something you don't have and should have -- whether that be a size 8 body, abs, barbie hair or a few thousand likes on instagram. But you all have something they don't, you have you!

So if you're a blogger feeling deflated with your blog, please don't! When you're 80 years old looking back and laughing at your fashion choices it will all be worth it! And if you're a silent reader of blogs, then do show those bloggers your support, I know they'd really appreciate it -- Lots of people have noticed a lack in comments and page views recently and it seems to be getting a lot of bloggers down! If you are a part of the blogging community, then help support it with a few kind words :)

Charlotte xx


33 comments:

  1. Lovely post. My blogging popularity isn't really that great, but its so wonderful to get, if only one comment from someone who likes my post. You are right - we should our fellow blogging peers :)

    http://cocodrizzle.blogspot.com

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    1. thankyou! Everyone who blogs, no matter how popular their blog is, can feel like they aren't good enough at one point, so all bloggers should support each other no matter what their follower count is :)

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  2. Great post! And I think your blog is great! I also love the photo, that water looks amazing! I haven't been blogging that long, but I love it!

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  3. What a lovely post! Love that selfie quote as well. So many friends take the mick out of my blogging and instagram selfies but I really couldn't care less. It makes me happy so :) xo
    EmsAlice // Fashion, Beauty & Lifestyle Blog

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    1. yess it's a great quote isn't it?! I think if everyone was happy enough to take selfies and appreciate other people's selfies there would be a lot less jealousy and maybe more people will be happier with themselves = better world if you ask me! x

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  4. Wow is that you on the picture ?? So cool ! I really love the quote about the selfies, that's soo true ! Lovely blog post as usual, don't worry you'll always have at least one reader and that's me hehehe //out

    Giveaway, win Sally Hansen and Cocoa Brown self tanning products !
    http://thecrimeofashion.blogspot.fr

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    1. woop woop! well you are one of my favourite and most supportive readers ;)

      and yes it's me paddle boarding, my new favourite hobby! x

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    2. You look amazing ! :)

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  5. Nice post! I love this location!
    XOX, Gap.
    www.gaptoothedgirl.com

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    1. yes it's beautiful isn't it!

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  6. Such a lovely post. I often feel like giving up then remember I started as a hobby so why stop something I love because I don't get 20+ comments like bigger blogs.

    As for the picture, not jealous at all.....haha

    - www.blkaesthetic.blogspot.com xx

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    1. yes please don't give up! It's such a shame when people do, you just have to remember why you started x

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  7. lovely post and very true!

    500daysoffashion.blogspot.com
    x

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  8. Shawner1111:43 pm

    Great post!! Be who you are and love who you are!! You are the only one that can make you happy by loving who you are first!! You have a fabulous blog! I love what you do and who you are!!! Great work! :)

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    1. wise words there!! thanks beautiful :) x

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  9. Love this post! Everything you say is so true, we shouldn't compare ourselves to others. Your blog is one of my faves (even though your tan makes me insanely jealous!) x

    Josie’s Journal

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    1. aw thanks Josie :--) just think of all the sun damage I'm doing then you won't be so jealous -- when I'm 40 and covered in wrinkles and you have the skin of an 18 year old ;) x

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  10. Love Love Love this post :-)
    I am a little self conscious of taking selfies on instagram...but I shall now think sod it and take and post one anyway! Really liked reading your post today, thank you...happy Friday!

    lauraevelynbee.blogspot.co.uk

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    1. yes!! any negative reactions to your selfie is just a reflection on how they feel about themselves, not you! x

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  11. this was great. SO needed this!! :)

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    1. so nice to hear :) thankyou! x

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  12. sucha good post, lately ive been feeling disheartened about blogging so this was needed :)

    dontcrycowboy

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    1. it happens to everyone! just got to remember why you started and appreciate the readers you already do have! x

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  13. Wat een lief artikel! Echt heel leuk!
    liefs, Tessa

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    1. thankyou, glad you enjoyed it :) x

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  14. This is such a lovely post and I would so love to be in that water right now xx

    Lauraslittleloves

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    1. it is lush!! thanks lovely x

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  15. What a bloody brilliant post...love it!! Thanks for the twitter follow too xxx

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  16. That title just drew me in! So inventive! I really liked this post, nicely written! I've been dishearted lately with my blog, it just doesn't seem to go anywhere :( oh wel this post has cheered me up x

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  17. I love this! And the quote speaks some serious truth. Embrace the beauty in the people around you!

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